Possibly done...

Yesterday Ryan and I were discussing being done having children of our own after Ali is born. I have always wanted 4 kids, but when I found out I was prego this time around i told Ryan in the same email that i said we are pregnant we could be done after this one. His response was we'll see. Yesterday(i don't remember what brought it up) Ryan declared he wants to be done! So we were talking of reasons and the two biggest are that we don't really have the room for a #4 and we don't really have the energy. We don't want to wait a few years until we have the room to have a #4. With these three this close in age we don't want to push the fourth too far out. I also don't want to have #4 just because i want 4 and push the other three off and not be the best mom i can be to meet the number i have set in my head. I also would like to be all done with the infant/baby stage by time dash starts school. With him being three this year, i would have to get prego within a few months after having Ali to make that happen.

I am not sure how clear my brain just puked on the screen, but upon further review we really think we are done. We are not taking any measurements until Ali is born.